Delphi; I want to have One Commit on both ADO Connection

Question

I have an application which is connected to local SQL Server DB, I want to transfer data to an online server (Remote server)

I want to add two ADO Connection, one to read the local data, and another one to insert into the Remote DB, after that, update the local data as moved.

I need to have one commit on both connections. Can I achieve this thing?

SQL Version: SQL 2008 R2 Express on Local, SQL 2012 Web Edition on Remote.

Linked Server not working:
Msg 7391 when using Distributed Transaction ( struggling for 4 days, tried all internet solution, not working)

MSDTC was configured correctly on both servers, disable firewall on both, but not working. Tried all solutions on the net with no result.

Sample Code uses:

set XACT_ABORT on
BEGIN DISTRIBUTED TRANSACTION;
  Select * from [LinkedServer].[DB_NAME].dbo.Employee
COMMIT TRANSACTION;

SSIS Package not working because I use SQL Server Express version