WPF DataGrid horizontal scrollbar snpas right on column resize

Question

I have a problem with the default behavior of the resizing of columns:

If a DataGrid is too wide for its container, the horizontal scrollbar appears. If I drag the bar to the right and resize most right column, the scrollbar sticks to the right.

In my case I don't want that behavior. The scrollbar should either just not stick to the right, or, perfect would be, a resize preview like MS Excel.

Can someone tell me how to achieve that?

Edit1: This behavior is fine (not sticking to the right):

What I don't like is this:

If I could realize that easily, I would prefer:

/Edit1

I am using .Net 4.8 for a simple WPF application.

If an example is need, the following will display two grids and the left one can be used for that behavior:

<Window x:Class="DataGridTest.MainWindow"
        xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
        xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
        xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
        xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006"
        xmlns:local="clr-namespace:DataGridTest"
        mc:Ignorable="d"
        Title="MainWindow" Height="350" Width="525">

    <Window.DataContext>
        <local:MasterViewModel/>
    </Window.DataContext>

    <DockPanel>
        <Button DockPanel.Dock="Bottom" Command="{Binding DisplaySelectionCountCommand}">Display Selection Count</Button>
        <Grid>
            <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                <ColumnDefinition/>
                <ColumnDefinition/>
            </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>

            
            <DataGrid Grid.Column="0" ItemsSource="{Binding Items}" AutoGenerateColumns="False"
                 SelectionMode="Extended" local:MultiSelect.IsEnabled="True" HorizontalScrollBarVisibility="Auto">
                <DataGrid.Columns>
                    <DataGridTextColumn Header="Name" Binding="{Binding Name}" Width="100"/>
                    <DataGridTextColumn Header="Name" Binding="{Binding Name}" Width="100"/>
                    <DataGridTextColumn Header="Name" Binding="{Binding Name}" Width="100"/>
                </DataGrid.Columns>
            </DataGrid>
            <DataGrid Grid.Column="1" ItemsSource="{Binding Items}"
                  SelectionMode="Extended" local:MultiSelect.IsEnabled="True"/>
        </Grid>
    </DockPanel>
</Window>

Answer 1

When I suggested to listen to the SizeChanged event I didn't mean the DataGrid to be the source.

Since you are interested in the columns, you must listen to the cell event of course:

MainWindow.xaml

<DataGrid>
  <DataGrid.CellStyle>
    <Style TargetType="DataGridCell">
      <EventSetter Event="SizeChanged" Handler="DataGridCell_SizeChanged" />
    </Style>
  </DataGrid.CellStyle>
</DataGrid>

MainWindow.xaml.cs

private void DataGridCell_SizeChanged(object sender, SizeChangedEventArgs e)
  => (sender as DataGridCell).BringIntoView();