Given two SELECT statements, how to merge them to get one result minus the other?

Question

I want to remove UNwantedIDs from wantedIDs , how to make sub-queries and get one result?

Here is my UNwantedIDs query:

SELECT 
    GROUP_CONCAT(DISTINCT `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` ORDER BY `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` ASC) UNwantedIDs
FROM `recipe_ingredient` 
WHERE `recipe_ingredient`.`ingredientId` 
     IN(SELECT `ingredient`.`ingredientId` AS unlinkIng 
        FROM `ingredient` 
        WHERE `ingredient`.`ingredientId` IN(1) or `ingredient`.`linkIngredientPerent` IN(1))
ORDER BY `recipeId` ASC  

http://sqlfiddle.com/#!2/84f00/5

Here is my wantedIDs query:

SELECT 
    GROUP_CONCAT(DISTINCT `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` ORDER BY `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` ASC) wantedIDs
FROM `recipe_ingredient` 
WHERE `recipe_ingredient`.`ingredientId` 
     IN(SELECT `ingredient`.`ingredientId` AS unlinkIng 
        FROM `ingredient` 
        WHERE `ingredient`.`ingredientId` IN(4,178) or    `ingredient`.`linkIngredientPerent` IN(4,178))
ORDER BY `recipeId` ASC  

http://sqlfiddle.com/#!2/84f00/4

Result ID like:

2,3,7,8,11,21,24,36,37,41,67,70,75,80,83,99,108 

Answer 1

I have this:

SELECT 
    GROUP_CONCAT(
        DISTINCT `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId`
        ORDER BY `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` ASC
    ) wantedIDs
FROM `recipe_ingredient` 
WHERE `recipe_ingredient`.`ingredientId` 
     IN(SELECT `ingredient`.`ingredientId` AS unlinkIng 
        FROM `ingredient` 
        WHERE
          (`ingredient`.`ingredientId` IN(4,178) OR
           `ingredient`.`linkIngredientPerent` IN(4,178)
          )
      )
      AND `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId` NOT IN (
          SELECT 
          `recipe_ingredient`.`recipeId`
             FROM `recipe_ingredient` 
          WHERE `recipe_ingredient`.`ingredientId` 
               IN (SELECT `ingredient`.`ingredientId` AS unlinkIng 
                  FROM `ingredient` 
                  WHERE `ingredient`.`ingredientId` IN(1) OR
                       `ingredient`.`linkIngredientPerent` IN(1)
               )
      )
ORDER BY `recipeId` ASC  

This is the result of a NOT IN used to merge the two queries. It is rather slow at the moment, probably because you need to add some indexes.

http://sqlfiddle.com/#!2/84f00/16